by Kay Lucas

What do you imagine when you hear the phrase “Date Night”? An outing of some sort, like dinner and a movie? Perhaps you hear “Cha-Ching” instead. Romance doesn’t need to be fancy or pricey. Whether you are on a first date or in an established relationship, it’s about making a connection with someone else and finding common interests.

Here are some ideas to help you think outside the box.

A Walk in the Park

Don’t rule out outdoor dates just because it is winter. Take a walk hand-in-hand in one of the area’s beautiful parks. It should be no surprise that you can find lasting love walking along Falls Park in Downtown Greenville; it has happened before. Plan ahead and pack a picnic. Not only is it extra romantic, but it might save you money too!

Afternoon Delight

Looking for a little more adventure? Kick the walking-in-the-park idea up a notch and hit the trails for a day date. There are some fantastic views and waterfalls out there for you to discover! Paris Mountain State Park in Greenville is a nearby option, but if you are up for a drive, try Table Rock, Caesars Head, or Jones Gap (all state parks). You will find trails for all experience levels.

Dance the Night Away

Search for local events, especially with live music. Dancing is a great way to fall in sync. There is just something about the way you connect through music and movement. It’s known to reduce anxiety and release endorphins. You don’t need a natural rhythm to have fun cutting a rug. No one has ever complained about spending an evening laughing, even if it is at themselves.

Stargazing

Escape the city lights to find a dark place to enjoy some star gazing. Start by watching the sunset with a fire pit and a warm beverage, and have plenty of blankets because it is going to get cold. Mother Nature will show off a bit this winter with amazing meteor showers! Although you can still catch sight of a falling star most of December and early January, peak nights are Dec.13-14, Dec. 22-23, and Jan 3-4. Go to TimeAndDate.com for night sky information, including an interactive map.

You don’t need to break the bank to get out of the dating rut. Once you start looking, the possibilities are endless. Get creative, share your passions, and try something new.

Kay Lucas is a local romance novelist, massage therapist, wife, and mother of four. When she doesn’t have her nose stuck in a book, she loves to dance while cooking and tend to her many fur and feathered friends.